Two in one night!
WARNING: Graphic sexuality discussions in links.
Oh me goodness gracious!
As a member of "the patriarchy", I would just say that most of the times when it happens all I can think of is, damn, I'm pretty freakin lucky today!
Actually, I would add one more thing.
Only a member of "teh patriarchy" would understand that when a member of "teh patriarchy" is in that position (and trust me it's always in some small part of our mind ) we are never, ever more freaking vulnerable.